2nd Transfer coming up!

Hi All, some may know this about me but I rely on inspirational quotes and positive energy to push forward when I am feeling stuck in a rut. What happened last month is no exception. I came across this quote yesterday that I felt was the perfect dictation of mine and Jay's story... "Be stubborn about your goals, and flexible about your methods." I love it! After years of trying to control the shit out of everything in my life, I finally gave in and since then I have taken a lot of pressure off my shoulders. I have learned to bend and flex and roll with the punches and it is absolutely the most important coping mechanism I have learned to adapt to!!! With that said and in the interest of pushing on, we have our second IVF transfer on January 19th!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WISH US LUCK!!!!!! Not that I am getting my hopes up or anything but I would love to take belly pics with my best buddy! :)